Hello guys. I am reaching out to those of you who generally want to find a wife in the Philippines.
Avoid Filipina Who only Want Your Money
After chatting for a while, you may find that a Filipina you are talking to is asking for money. Maybe they need a load top-up for their prepaid phone, assistance with family issues, or cash to sustain them.
To play it safe, I recommend you don't send any money to any girl in the Philippines for 6 to 12 months until you know her well. If she leaves you in that time for another man, then you know it was never genuine, and her goals were financial. The first time she asks, you can decide if you will send her a little bit if it is a small amount you can afford. This will be a test to see if she wants you for money or not. If it goes a long time before she asks again, then she could be the real deal, but if she asks for more shortly after you send the first lot, then you need to be careful. Be careful if you answer her request, and the amounts get more substantial, or she finds more reasons why she needs money.
Many single ladies in the Philippines will not be working, but there are a lot of hard-working women in the Philippines who have jobs or some income. You will find a lot of younger Filipino girls are studying. There is a chance the women who are studying will graduate and find a job, but you will need to decide if you are willing to wait until they are working. Ask them questions, and be sure they have intentions to find a job. If excuses why they can't find a job mount up, then be careful.
Look for a Filipino with Strong Family Values
Filipino culture is very family orientated. They often have many children, and a family could consist of 7 or more kids.
If a woman is originally from a province or an island a long way from a large city, she may move to work. But she will still maintain close ties to her family. If you want to have a family with your future wife, then make sure she understands the value of family ties. Fortunately, family ties amongst Filipino women are common.
If you are the sort of man who doesn't want to meet the family until you are committed to be married, then you should explain this upfront. But if you even want to have a family, then you still need to be sure she values family and wants to raise a family with you if you ever want to do that. Many Filipina will want you to meet her family and if this is the case, you could have met a good girl.